The Virgin

Whats the correct definition of being a virgin.... (pure; unsullied; undefiled: not previously exploited, cultivated, tapped, or used)??

Everyone knows the general meaning and that is...not ever having sexual intercourse....

But lets talk about if everyone was still a virgin to relationships that failed, or sexual relationships or people who lie all the damn time for no reason.

Do you think that your relationship would be healthy if your mate wasnt defiled with the hurt they kept from their past relationship(s). Everyone can feel me on this.. . the reason being this: Imagine if  no one ever did wrong to us; then we wouldn't hold any hatred or a grudge towards them that would stop us from loving wholeheartedly with the next because of the fear of being hurt again.. I look at myself and see that the power of words have, at times,overshadowed my actions and vice versa. I've apologized openly to a couple of people for how I ripped them to shreds and broke down their pride.

 By tellin them things that i know i wasnt gonna be able to fulfill but had them whole-heartedly believing that or going in on spots I knew were tender. Man listen i wish i was a VIRGIN again not a virgin sexually but a virgin mentally and emotionally though ive learned from my mistakes and corrected them but theres plenty of people who dont have that opportunity and continue to live fucked up lives but i refuse to be one of those people. No more being around people whose parents let them marinate for 9 months in the womb, just to become a fuck boy.